awww i believe you... its just that... kah.... ahh. how does i says......... after i are apologised, hui feel bads in stomachss ness ness and wanted to throwsss up and not eat for dayssss and liekssss eermmmm likeeessssssssssss ssss sshsssssssssss kah hmmmmmm ssssssss rudeness tooo meee and kah mmmmmmm what i does? kah ah...... ermmmmm ye nooooo.... then i lies in my beds and hydrogen oxide spilled from the whitest organs of my face and i spent the rest of the darkness trying to breathe and look normalsss and itss hurtsstststs and i doesnsts understand cos i are immature andd... like....kah.......... the the the rudeness i ahhhh
weeee are nooot on equall ground..... ii doesnt understand at alll.... iwants to makes ups and bes friendsss againsss but at the same time.... i doesnt.... typng this makes my heart goo faster and my face rage but my stomach turn as welll......
i dont know..... yea... lets, lets just drop it, we're too different and we're not meant to be friends, i guess, even though it was all so good before..... but but but but sheeee... ermm...ahhhhhhhh.......everytimesss shess saysnesas stuffs i likess, tries to forgets it cos we're friends and shit like that dont matter,,, sshhe hasnt said anythings to me cept for hey and she said that rudely. its unfair and .... yea no.... stufffs....................... she said from her own mouth that she owed me and also that she ahted me cos i let her take advantage of me or sumtin..... i does stuffs for her cos i wants her to be.... happys and i doesnt want to soundsss all goody goody and oh noes i are the victim in this cos i must have played some part in this but but but (cuts self again)
Let's face it Brigita I know your playing neutral because you want to remain friends with both Chelyne and Huihuihui, but first of all if your going to play neutral you can't just disregard actual events and say that people are on equal ground just because that what standing you want to take. If you truly wanted to take the neutral path you should have been less active about voicing your opinions and making sure that people knew that they were your opinions not just saying "you two are equal" say something more like I just think you two aren't too different" it makes a difference you know... also Hui and everyone have made actual points toward why they are not on equal footing, you can't just disregard events and happenings and such simply cause you want to take a neutral position... if you want to be friends with them both and want to have neutral ground without hurting anyone then you should have taken a less active role in portraying your opinion.
she's definitely in the wrong here. if you can make it neutral with her then you're good. you don't hafta be frineds of anything. just try to make it neutral. and you knwo shit heals.
you just give it time. and even though you were good friends maybe you just weren't ever gone stay good friends. i mean like adrienne and i were best friends for years and years and i thought she'd be my best friend for ever and ever and we just grew apart. it happened really quickly too. it was jsut like one day we looked at each other and went yeah we don't need to be friends that much any more and we'd been holding on to this mediocre friendship because we'd been frinds for ever.
i mean that didn't end with a bang the way and chelyne have done but it's the same sort of thing. so maybe at the end of yr 12 you and chelyne will look at each other and go yeah hui's pretty cool. or yeah chelyne's pretty cool. but you'll both be cool with all this shit that's happened and you'll be happy knowing that you got your own good friends and that you don't need each other because you've got everyone else.
cos you do have everyone else. i mean i like you. i want to stay friends with you. i don't wanna side with chelyne. i don't wanna side with anyone.
i just want everyone to be happy. and if you and chelyne can be happy with just sorta fixing this shit up then i'm happy. and school will be more fun. less awkward and yeah.
i cry for you hui. really i do.
give it time and it'll get better. even if chelyne doesn't apologise (which would be nice) it'll still get better because time fixes everything.
everything is blunted by time and gradually you'll stop caring. and you know what? you'll be better for it cos you'll know that when this stuff happens you can deal with it and you've got friends to help you deal with it/
i don't get it joel. in some of the fights chelyne has definitely been in the wrong. in some of them hui/ru have said things they shouldn't. i'm dealing with one fight at a time. this one is older and way more deep seated than the one about what chelyne said about emily's party. in that one it was unfair of ru/hui to say what they did. in this one chelyne is in the wrong. it's just been going on so long that it's all got muddled.
Honestly, get over it. Everyone seems to be overreacting in this situation, all over a couple of seemingly joking 'insults'. Big deal, move on, eat a cookie. Friendship should be about more than that.
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awww i believe you... its just that... kah.... ahh. how does i says......... after i are apologised, hui feel bads in stomachss ness ness and wanted to throwsss up and not eat for dayssss and liekssss eermmmm likeeessssssssssss ssss sshsssssssssss kah hmmmmmm ssssssss rudeness tooo meee and kah mmmmmmm what i does? kah ah...... ermmmmm ye nooooo.... then i lies in my beds and hydrogen oxide spilled from the whitest organs of my face and i spent the rest of the darkness trying to breathe and look normalsss and itss hurtsstststs and i doesnsts understand cos i are immature andd... like....kah.......... the the the rudeness i ahhhh
weeee are nooot on equall ground..... ii doesnt understand at alll.... iwants to makes ups and bes friendsss againsss but at the same time.... i doesnt.... typng this makes my heart goo faster and my face rage but my stomach turn as welll......
i dont know..... yea... lets, lets just drop it, we're too different and we're not meant to be friends, i guess, even though it was all so good before..... but but but but sheeee... ermm...ahhhhhhhh.......everytimesss shess saysnesas stuffs i likess, tries to forgets it cos we're friends and shit like that dont matter,,, sshhe hasnt said anythings to me cept for hey and she said that rudely.
its unfair and .... yea no.... stufffs.......................
she said from her own mouth that she owed me and also that she ahted me cos i let her take advantage of me or sumtin..... i does stuffs for her cos i wants her to be.... happys and i doesnt want to soundsss all goody goody and oh noes i are the victim in this cos i must have played some part in this but but but
(cuts self again)
---hui----
Let's face it Brigita
I know your playing neutral because you want to remain friends with both Chelyne and Huihuihui, but first of all if your going to play neutral you can't just disregard actual events and say that people are on equal ground just because that what standing you want to take.
If you truly wanted to take the neutral path you should have been less active about voicing your opinions and making sure that people knew that they were your opinions not just saying "you two are equal" say something more like I just think you two aren't too different" it makes a difference you know... also Hui and everyone have made actual points toward why they are not on equal footing, you can't just disregard events and happenings and such simply cause you want to take a neutral position... if you want to be friends with them both and want to have neutral ground without hurting anyone then you should have taken a less active role in portraying your opinion.
-peace
Joel
ahhhh friendss!! NO
here we go again!! (woah oh oh oh oh oh baby, here we go, again!) maybe on ella and ru'll get this
---hui
she's definitely in the wrong here. if you can make it neutral with her then you're good. you don't hafta be frineds of anything. just try to make it neutral. and you knwo shit heals.
you just give it time. and even though you were good friends maybe you just weren't ever gone stay good friends. i mean like adrienne and i were best friends for years and years and i thought she'd be my best friend for ever and ever and we just grew apart. it happened really quickly too. it was jsut like one day we looked at each other and went yeah we don't need to be friends that much any more and we'd been holding on to this mediocre friendship because we'd been frinds for ever.
i mean that didn't end with a bang the way and chelyne have done but it's the same sort of thing. so maybe at the end of yr 12 you and chelyne will look at each other and go yeah hui's pretty cool. or yeah chelyne's pretty cool. but you'll both be cool with all this shit that's happened and you'll be happy knowing that you got your own good friends and that you don't need each other because you've got everyone else.
cos you do have everyone else. i mean i like you. i want to stay friends with you. i don't wanna side with chelyne. i don't wanna side with anyone.
i just want everyone to be happy. and if you and chelyne can be happy with just sorta fixing this shit up then i'm happy. and school will be more fun. less awkward and yeah.
i cry for you hui.
really i do.
give it time and it'll get better. even if chelyne doesn't apologise (which would be nice) it'll still get better because time fixes everything.
everything is blunted by time and gradually you'll stop caring. and you know what? you'll be better for it cos you'll know that when this stuff happens you can deal with it and you've got friends to help you deal with it/
ok?
~hokay!
*noddds happily with moonn-shaped shut eyes*
0---hui
i don't get it joel. in some of the fights chelyne has definitely been in the wrong. in some of them hui/ru have said things they shouldn't. i'm dealing with one fight at a time. this one is older and way more deep seated than the one about what chelyne said about emily's party. in that one it was unfair of ru/hui to say what they did. in this one chelyne is in the wrong. it's just been going on so long that it's all got muddled.
i'm glad you understand hui.
kakaka its alright.
oh shit i have to do geography.
My (probably unwanted) opinion:
Honestly, get over it. Everyone seems to be overreacting in this situation, all over a couple of seemingly joking 'insults'. Big deal, move on, eat a cookie. Friendship should be about more than that.
Srsly guise, get over it.
To be fair, I'm not playing neutral or anything, and I sympathise, but geez.
And stop using the blog as your special place to talk about your problems. I thought we were past this.
it's not going to happen again. i just needed to clear the one thing up and now we can stop.
seriously. it'll stop.
... you guise get over making me get over it. it aint got nothing to do with you. sides, cant you see it has been resolved?
here here!
"And stop using the blog as your special place to talk about your problems" define blog.
hello this is ru.
you mean did one thing that i shouldnt have done. that is all. and this isnt really helping me get over.
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